This blog is intentionally fairly jovial, flippant, not too serious, and at least a couple of degrees removed from my real life. It’s about me, and the things I find interesting and funny, but mainly about the running experience.
The thing is, after this week I don’t think it can stay the same. Either the tone changes significantly, or I just shut the thing down. Clearly, I’ve chosen the first option. So… given I don’t know where to start, I’ll just tell the story of the last week.
Wednesday last week
I was reading an article online about self-examination (for women). I thought I should probably do that too. I did – in the shower – and there was a lump somewhere very personal. It didn’t hurt, but it wasn’t normal.
Friday morning
I managed to get time to go to the GP, who poked and prodded in a very uncomfortable way. No matter how gentle they are, no-one knows your sensitive bits the way you do. He agreed with me about the lump and sent me to have an ultrasound. He was a nice GP, but I walked out of there feeling significantly less happy than before.
I managed to get an ultrasound later that day, which led to more humiliation and yet more poking and prodding. What made it worse was the ultrasoundist freaked out a bit and went to get his boss to help. The boss had an even poorer bed-side manner – assuming the manner is supposed to leave you feeling reassured – he mentioned the T word.
Weekend
Over the weekend I did a fair bit of freaking out myself. I talked to my brother, who lives in the UK, on Saturday afternoon, and felt strangely reassured. Then I talked to my Dad the following day and put the phone down feeling s**t-scared. I thought through a lot of ridiculous stuff, like if I had 3 months to live, what would I do?
Monday
I headed back to the GP to get the ultrasound results. My run of bad results with medical people continued. He handed me a copy of the report and said “I have bad news for you”. And he did. In short order, he said the words “tumor”, “malignant” and “cancer”, followed by “urologist”, “surgery” and “radiation”.
The strange thing was: it felt so ordinary. It was like I’d gone to the post office only to find they were out of stamps. Oh well, I’ll just wait until tomorrow then.
I left, with a referral in my hand, and went to the station, then walked home in the rain.
I ate dinner that night, but it took an effort of will. My brain didn’t quite know what’s going on, but my body definitely knew this was something to feel nauseous about. Nauseous and head-achey.
Today
I have an appointment with a specialist on Monday, which is a frustratingly long time away, but better than the first option – October. The uncertainty is really difficult, as is not knowing whether I should tell anyone (other than family) now or wait until later.
What does this all mean?
Well, apart from having at least one thing in common with Lance Armstrong, I don’t really know. I still haven’t seen the specialist, and I don’t know what’s in store.
I don’t think this will kill me, but I don’t imagine it’s going to make life easy in any way.
I don’t want to stop running – I don’t want to just fall in a heap.
I just want to get this treated, and beat the bloody thing. I have a lot of years left with my kids and my wife, and maybe a marathon or two to run.
Keep checking in, and I’ll update the blog when things change or develop.
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